| Jumat, 03 Juli 2009 |
| IFs |
“THERE’S A REASON WHY PEOPLE THINK OF THE PAST..IT’S BECAUSE IT’S IN THE PAST”
Have u ever for at least once in ur life thought what could have happened if u had taken different path, how ur life could have changed, who u could have met, what u could have done, if u had taken a different choice from what u did take…
What could have happened if yesterday I had stayed home instead of going out? Who could I have met if I had gone to university A instead of univ B? what could I have been doing right now If I hadn’t known her/him? I believe each of u had ever been in the stage of wondering what could have been going on if u had done that instead of this. “IF, IF, IF, and IF”. many things could have been different.
I have experienced that many times and I used to be able to find the counter argument to get me thru it. But these few months have got me thinking over and over trying to make sense of it. Many Ifs have become my ally, many Wishes have become my traps. I kept wondering what could have happened should I have been too sick to teach, should I have stayed at home the night I got my accident. What could have happened should I hadn’t moved to Medan, should I hadn’t met my precious friends.
When u reach a point in ur life called the peak experience point in which there is something u experience that changed ur life, change the way u think, the way u feel, the way u see something n the way u will live ur life, All the vague things u couldn’t see clearly, u couldn’t tell which is which will look clearer. Well, this paragraph is just an additional paragraph and doesn’t really have anything to do with what I’m trying to imply by writing this note ^^ .
It doesn’t matter how many Ifs n Wishes u have made. It doesn’t matter what happened in the past coz it happened n there’s nothing in hell, in Heaven or even on Earth u can do to undo it. It happened n we just have to accept it. Yet, there is always something we can do, maybe not to undo it, but to redo it in a different way if a similar thing happens again. U learn from the past, u learn it the hard way n u should be thankful instead grieving. Coz what really matters is the present n the future. The present u are living and the future u wanna live in. I’m aware of how difficult it is to let go of the past but the past is the past and knowing that ur family and friends are there for u, u will only care for now n the future. I didn’t get it at first, I made a lot of mistakes by holding on the past too much, I couldn’t move on but now I’m moving on. Sometime time is what u need to move on ^_^ and always keep this in mind that every cloud has its silver lining >_<
“THE TRUE HAPPINESS IS DOING WHAT U LOVE N BEING WITH THE PEOPLE U LOVE” Ben Stiller, night at the museum |
posted by Mariyanti Wen @ 22.37  |
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mar, w uda "follow" u di blogger okee :)
mana entry barunyaaa,, cih XD
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hehehheh tuh uda ada entry baru mah stef,,ya mmg ga gt bgs se...doain de nanti kl wada ide br buat yg bgs ^^
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mar, w uda "follow" u di blogger okee :)
mana entry barunyaaa,, cih XD